There are, sadly, several situations in which a person may feel constantly rejected. An instance of this which has become almost iconic is getting picked for dodgeball in elementary--there is always someone picked last, and it is almost always the same kid. If this hypothetical kid is not always but often picked last, he may still feel self-conscious whenever he fnds himself lined up witht he other kids. This self-consciousness may effect his dodgeball abilities, making him an even poorer player. Now, he is picked last every time. If this kid is particularly emotional, he may be become frustrated to the point of projecting negetively outwards throughout the entire day, driving away any friends he has and making him feel even more rejected. Am I the only one who thinks this sounds irritatingly like one of those comercials that say, "Oh, if you don't switch to our company your life and all you hold dear will be destroyed and here is exactly how it will happen"?
This kid, yes has been rejected quite often, and he let it get to his head. He was rejected in gym class, and he let it bother him so much that it effected the other aspects of his life, which lead to more rejection. The kid, when he thinks about it, probably feels angry, confused, sad, and perhaps a little defiant, not quite understanding why he is faced with so much rejection.
The effect rejection has on a person is the effect that person lets it have. If this kid had not let gym class get to his head, then he probably would've been fine. But if a person allows one rejection to absorb them, then they will only be regected more. It is a vicious cycle, but alas, it is life.
Friday, April 27, 2012
Friday, April 20, 2012
English Post Two: Personal Responsibility
How do you define personal responsibility? When something bad happens that involves you, how do you know whether or not you bear some responsibility for it?
I'm not going to lie, I chuckled when I saw what this post is about. Responsibility. We all saw this coming.--
-->So what is personal responsibility? Essencially, it is ensuring that no one gets harmed because of you. In a nutshell. If you are driving while texting, eating, just not looking at the road, fishing, changing your pants, what have you, then if you get in an accident, it is your fault. No jury in their right minds will argue in your favor, because you were the one not being personally responsible. You had essencially just decreed that whatever distraction had been entertaining your attention was more important than the safety and general well-being of yourself and everyone else around you.
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-->But what if you weren't changing your pants while driving? What if you were the helpless citezen who was obeying all the traffic laws when some other psycho came tearing down the street with a phone glued to his face and decided to crawl up your bumper? In that case, no one will question your personal responsibility (to be honest, no one will really care about you at all; they'll all be too busy knocking the other guy over the head with scraps from his own car). Because it was the other dude not giving a <<word_of_choice_here>> about being responsible.
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--> Another example: say you leand your friend a boat for the weekend. The boat sinks. Whose fault is it? If your friend was drunk and was too busy seeing rainbow ponies to realize he was coming up on some shoals, than it's probably his. But if your friend was in fact completely sober and you later realize you had forgotten to inform your friend that your boat is from the stone age and it may have a hole or twenty, then you were frankly not being personally responsible.
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That is all. The end.
.......I still can't figure out how to change the title.. any help with that, please? and also, can we post other things on this blog, or is it strictly for school stuff? just wondering.
Friday, April 6, 2012
English Post One: Exploration
What are some ways in which people throughout the ages have explored the unknown? Why have individuals devoted themselves to a life of exploration and discovery? What sacrifices does such devotion involve?
The way people explore is forever shifting and changing. Think about it: for the first people, exploration was looking under a rock or behind a tree. Later they built boats, and then airplanes, and then submarines and other deep-sea exploration thingies. Heck, we've built spaceships. You know what that says to our alien neighbors? That we really, really like to know what's going on around us.But why? Probably for the same reason I'm practically writing an essay when you said we didn't have to. Because we can, and we want to. Some people just get this burning desire to explore, to seek out the unknown, to understand the world. And to leave their mark upon it. Those two reasons are all that many people need to put aside their family, friends, life of safety--life in general, actually--and dive headfirst into the unknown. So they can do what they love, and be remembered for it.
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